How to win her heart?
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Hi Readers! This is Jackson hailing from Chennai. I am doing my B.Tech. in a reputed university . I am 5 ft 9 inch tall guy with fair complexion and build athletic. Till now i never been with a girl or even talked to a girl from 8th standard cause i felt all the girls are rude and didn’t find any real girl . I never even felt the feeling of love.
But everything changed after an encounter with a girl in my department. I have seen her for the first time after my 1st year, I did not have any feeling for her for the first time. Later on I heard a lot about her like whole boys department talking great about her character . I have even witnessed her great character. She started to look beautiful because of her clean image and now I am the feeling of love for her started to grow day by day . She is also just like me , she never had any affair before and never wanted any , because she wanted to be bound to the decision of her parents.
She moves close to everyone, she never even hurts anyone ( as she follows the principles of Jainism very strictly) she always knows her limits and very conservative and traditional. I have never even seen her in any modern dresses. Even though we belong to same department , we are in two different sections. I just feel she is most perfect girl in the whole world that I can ever find.
I didn’t even know how to introduce myself to her because I never talked to a girl before. She knew I was into her as she felt it in my eyes. She bows her head or turns her face around when she passes me. I preserved all the best experiences of life ( First kiss, First Hug, First proposal, Virginity ) for some one special in my life. I just wanna share everything with her. I want to live with her through out my life. My life is incomplete with out her.
Many of friends say I look handsome and i can get any girl I want. I got some proposals but rejected them cause I am waiting for the perfect girl.
So guys please tell me how to win over her heart?
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There is no any standard equation to win someone’s heart, Your honesty may bring her close to you but the point is how you show your honesty to her and your true love for her?. For which you needs to talk to a girl but you are shy in that so first learn how to talk with girl, You may talk to girl in your family and discuss with her your situation and ask her help to rid out of this situation. But be prepared for rejection from your office girl because there is a maximum chance of rejection as per your description of her nature.
If you really want to win her heart than you will have to take initiative and take a lead without hesitation. Girls prefer a boy who is honest and true, who understand her, girls are not all behind the look but they are likes personality. Know her liking and disliking, make her laugh, be her time pass and take interest in her family and her friends but it will only help you if she is your friend and you want to take your relationship in next step. Here is a question how to be a her friend? Your smartness will draws her towards you. Do something in office which will take her attention towards you. Make her curious about you.
Do not change yourself just for to get someone but change yourself to your better-half. She will be only with you if she wants you. If she has feelings for you, no matter how you feels for her so keep this thing in your mind and try for her. Certain things we can not expects in our life as per our wish. You may start with casual friendship, if she will became your friend than do not be in such hurry to propose her wait till right time.
Wait for other readers reply and act accordingly. We are also eager to hear from you when she will became your friend.