I, (22) and my husband (30) have been together a couple years. At first sex was great. The last year, it’s declined. Now it’s to the point where it’s not enjoyable with him. I’m into the rough stuff. I want to be dominated. I mentioned this to him at the beginning of the year that I would like to explore and see what I like. He agreed, but he only initiated once after that. I want to be the submissive one when it comes to sex but he has told me in recent months that he doesn’t like to be the dominant one. He wants me to be. There isn’t much foreplay. It’s really messing with me now. I’ve mentioned maybe adding a third every now and then and at first he was on board, when he thought I meant another girl. I want another guy involved and he said he wasn’t sure if he would ever be ready for that. Now, I’m really debating bringing up maybe an open relationship. I don’t want to leave him over the sex not being good. It doesn’t seem logical. What would you do if you were me? What advice do you have? I didn’t really get to explore my sexy side before I got together with my husband. Now I want to and I’m afraid I won’t be able to.