Husband is leaving me, he says he missed out on having sex with women in her 30s( We both are 40). We are married over when we were in our late 20s and after children I suffered from low libido. I thought he understood. Turn out he wants to experience the sex he missed out on. My libido has improved as kids have gotten older and I told him I will give him all the sex he wants. He said he loves me and likes having sex with me but I am not young and I can’t give him what he wants because of my age.
Our therapist says that he is probably going through a midlife crisis and thats why he wants to get what he missed out on. I asked him why he didn’t say anything beforehand and he said he didn’t know he wanted it so badly, now when he looks back he has figured out how much he missed out.
Only way to save my marriage is for me to become younger. How fucked up is that. Therapist questioned him on any resentment he had of me not having sex and he denies it but I think he is mad. He found a way to punish me. I would prefer that he scream and curse at me, I would apologize everyday if he just let it go but I can’t get younger. He is just so certain that he is doing the right thing.