I am 45 years and married. I have been masturbating daily since I was 15. Is it ok?
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Hi,
I have been masturbating since I was 15 years old, almost every day. I do it mostly while taking bath in the morning. I almost imagine a new face every day that I met during masturbation.
I got married at the age of 30 and stopped masturbating for a while. Then re-started. I dont know when, though I am having sex with my wife on a regular basis, though now-a-days not that often. My wife always wants to have sex in the same position.
I often enjoy masturbating thinking of different women in the bath than having sex with a real woman. Ii is ok? Do I have to stop this nonsense?
I dont know how. I easly get attracted by other women like my maid. Why is that? Please share your thoughts.
Thanks in advance
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Masturbation is a normal thing even after marriage but one should make sure that the masturbation habit does not affect the sexual life with the partner. If you masturbate more than having sex with your wife then one thing is clear that there is a problem in your sex life and you should address it.
I too masturbate most of the time but I do have sex with my wife more than jerking off myself. It seems that there is no excitement in your sexual life as she does not want to experience new things in the bed so talk to her and let her know what you want to do and what you wish in the sexual life.
Ask her to try new things to bring the spark in the sexual life. If possible then see the porn movies together and ask her to try something new in the sexual life after seeing the movies and new things. Only communication can help you so keep having discussion with her whenever you get a chance to bring the subject of the sex but remember such thing needs time so you have to give enough time to your wife so she can prepare herself to try new things in the sex.