I am a bit embarrassed about my intimate area, my breasts are saggy.
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I am a bit embarrassed about my intimate area, which is dark in complexion. It’s not as beautiful as that of Caucasian women. Also, my breasts are saggy. Does it matter to men?
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I am glad you found the courage to ask this question. In a country that is obsessed with fairness, and thinks of fairness as clean and dark complexion as dirty, a lot of people are genuinely anxious that they are less attractive because their genitals are darker than their skin tone. It causes people a lot of shame, anxiety, and fear to show their genitals to their partners because they feel their partner might find it ugly. Let me assure you, having darker skin in your genital region, buttocks, or inner thighs is absolutely normal. The darker colour of genitals is not a sign of lack of hygiene or dirtiness.
Porn and film actors in revealing outfits have even toned skin in these private areas, either because they are using make-up, or their pictures are airbrushed using Photoshop. One of the biggest cosmetic procedures done in India today is vaginal/genital bleaching or “intimate area lightening”. From painful medical procedures to using over-the-counter creams and lotions, there are a lot of ways in which people try to ‘whiten’ their genital region. This is absolutely unnecessary and possibly harmful to your genitals in the long run. About sagging, all breasts droop with age and gravity and in some women this process can get accelerated due to certain reasons. Invest in bras that are supportive, comfortable, and fit you well. Get a hormonal test done to see if your estrogen levels are right. Massage your breasts as a daily ritual before a bath or before going to sleep. Workouts like chest presses, push-ups, chest stretches help strengthen breast connective tissue and thus slow down sagging and lift your chest muscles. About your worry on whether the breast sagginess can dampen a man’s sexual attraction, sexual attraction is not primarily and only about ‘boobs’. A mature man understands that sagginess is real and natural and accepts the fact graciously.