I am infatuated to my wife’s divorced friend. Should I tell her?
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I am happily married for past 3 years. Recently, I got to meet a friend of my wife. She is a sweet lady who is elder to us and having a kid. She is divorced. I was smitten by her the moment I saw her. She is the perfect aunty material.
I am very infatuated by her. My sex life is under a little drag now as my wife is not much into experimenting. But meeting her friend has made me horny all over again. Even during our sex, I imagine it is this new friend.
Please guide me with some advice. I dont know what to do. Sometimes I feel like calling her and letting her know my feelings.
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There is a sex bomb ticking in your head and in your penis. Imagine what happens when it explodes. There is going be noise and blood around you. Have you thought what happens to your relationship with your wife when she gets to know what you are thinking.
You have clearly said that your wife is not into experimenting, so it means that she has not introduced her friend to you with a broad minded relationship in mind. You new acquaintenance being divorced is of no consequence to you. Why do you imagine that she is not getting sex, so is dying to open your pants?
Since you are infatuated by her and behaving like a schoolboy, even three years after your marriage, you can approach her in a friendly way. How will you do it, without her telling your wife is for you to work out.
Since you are having great sex, by thinking about her when with your wife, why don’t you continue in this way? This way, you are happy and so must be your wife. Why rock the boat? Choice is yours – sail on calm waters or face the impending storm.