I am unable to maintain erection when I try to penetrate my wife. Help.
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Dear Helpers,
I have been married for 2 months, and still yet to have sex with my wife. My penis loses its erection when I try to place it on her vagina, however it remains hard in oral sex and foreplay.
I went to a Urologist some day ago. He prescribed some medicine for depression, stress, and ED (Venegra), My penis was hard when I took one full venegra, and when I tried to do then, it was just a little bit insertion but she was in deep pain (as we both are virgin till date and she is too skinny). We had to stop there but I ejaculated while placing my penis on her vagina and tip was inside of her. This resulted in her pregnancy.
Now she is pregnant and we are yet to perform our first sex. The reason why I didn’t continue taking Venegra is that it has a huge side effect of immense nausea and Headache which is just unbearable.
Has anyone else gone through this phase?
Looking forward to any sort of advice.
Many Thanks.
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She is virgin so it must be hard her to take your penis inside her vagina without pain. However, try to insert your finger after enough foreplay so she gets wet enough to take the finger and once you are succeed with one finger you can use two fingers to widen her hole. Once she is comfortable to take two fingers inside her vagina you can try with your penis. See the doctor to make sure that she is pregnant as it is really hard for her to get pregnant without proper intercourse as it is not easy for women to get pregnant.
However, chances are there that she gets pregnant this way so it is not odd at all but after confirming the pregnancy you both need to decide whether you guys want to go ahead with the pregnancy or not. Better to wait for a few years before you plan the family. Make sure that you both are relax and do not put pressure on anyone to perform real sex.