I can’t suck his cock because it’s too black in colour. What to do?
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Hi Users,
I am Tamalika, aged 24. I am in love with my brother-in-law. I hope that our parents will accept our marriage proposal.
Recently, we started having physical relationship, not sex but physically arousing each other. He some times comes to my house or I go to his house. 2 days back, I showed my vulva to him. I am not very fair and my vulva is the same colour as my skin. He was very happy and asked me if he could touch it?
I gave him green signal. He rubbed it and after a few minutes, he asked me if he could give me pleasure. I said okay, as I was in the mood at that time. He started licking my vulva. It was such a great feeling that I really can’t explain. When he was licking my pussy, I myself pulled his head down toward my vulva.
Then he showed me his penis. I was shocked. It is pitch black in colour. I felt disgusted and couldn’t imagine his penis in my mouth. I told him no girl will suck your penis as it is too black. He got angry and left my room. He stopped talking to me, and he didn’t take my phone call.
He is otherwise a good person. His body colour is also fairer than mine. Then why is his penis so blaacckkkk in colour? He says he will only talk to me after I give him a blow job. He is demanding that he licked my vulva so I should suck his black cock.
Why does he have such a black penis even though he is very fair? Is it some disease?
thank you
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You are worrying for nothing and his color does not show that he has diseases. Penis is always black compare to body color because of its ability to shrunken.
Let me tell you that if you suck his penis then you will not get anything harmful for your health, just ask him to wash it with plenty of warm water.
Close your eyes and start sucking it and with few sessions, you will start enjoying it. Morally he has a right to be sucked off by you as he given you his head so you should return the pleasure to maintain the healthy and balance sex life. However, ask him that you need some time to be mentally ready to give him blowjob and ask him to be patience as you are getting yourself for it.
He should have not stopped talking to you just because you refused to give him blowjob so do not go out of way to please him. Give him some time to come to the terms.
However, if you do not like to take his semen inside your mouth then ask him to warn you before he is going to shoot his semen. To be comfortable with sucking do it for few minutes for the first time and then gradually increase your timing to suck him but at least try for it. It will take some time to be ready so keep trying it and at the end if you are unable to suck his penis then do not expect his head between your legs.
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First of all what you did was a direct insult to a person who loves you. You must apologise to him. Just imagine yourself at his place. You gave him a blowjob first and the he sees your vagina and says “it’s disgusting, no men will like to lick that pice of shit”. How does it feel?
So admit your mistake.
Let me ask you one thing. You sincerely love this guy, don’t you?
Then you must accept his pros as well as cons. It’s applicable to all the factors in life like education, wealth, manners etc. (Not just sex and physic) Try to understand him and give respect. I think it will be difficult for him to accept you back after your such disrespectful act. Anyway you may have a chance for patch up with him. Good luck.
Regarding penis colour. It’s common the penis appear to be little darker than face colour. It has nothing to do with hygiene.
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I’m not surprised he got angry. You are very inexperienced, and the first thing you have to understand about a man’s penis is that it is darker in colour than his body. There is nothing unusual or unnatural about this, and if you refuse to suck a man’s penis on the basis of the colour of it, you are doomed to never taking a man’s cork in your mouth. My husband is an Anglo-Saxon white Englishman with blonde hair and blue eyes. He gets a nice suntan, and goes a lovely golden colour when he’s in the sun, but his penis head is almost purple in colour. The colour of a man’s penis is the result of the huge amount of blood that is pumped into it to make erect. He could no more change it and he could change the colour of his eyes.
As you point out yourself, your vulva is quite dark darker than the rest of your body. This is for precisely the same reasons as your boyfriend’s penis is darker than his body. When you are sexually aroused, your genitalia are infused with more blood than usual, and they will go a darker colour. This is the result of sexual excitement, and is perfectly natural.
You have let him go down on you, and he has shown no reluctance to kiss, lick, and suck your whole folder, and bring you to the most delightful orgasms. He was probably really proud that he could make you feel so good, and I’m sure he enjoyed every second of getting his face down there and tasting you, and enjoying pushing his tongue inside you and licking your juices. I can only imagine how hurt and angry must’ve felt when you rejected him because of the colour of his penis. It must’ve really hurt his feelings a great deal, and you really should have been a lot more tactful. You have to understand that a man attaches paramount importance to his penis, and in a very real way, it defines everything about him. He thinks about his penis, he loves his penis, Andy constantly wants to touch it and play with it. He wants you to feel the same way about it, in a very real sense, to love him, is to love his penis, and in rejecting him the way you have done, you can have done much worse if you’d stabbed him with a knife through the heart.
He stopped talking to you and wouldn’t answer the phone, and that comes as no surprise to me. The fact that he is even talking to you at all surprises me. I think you have probably done irreparable damage to your relationship, as he is now only focused on getting you to suck his penis, more as an act of revenge than anything else. You have two learn an awful lot about men, starting with the fact that if you insult their penis, then you really are insulting them, and your utter rejection is something that he will never forget. For your own sake, you have to end the relationship. You can apologise all you like, but it will never take away that feeling of rejection. It will always be in the back of his mind that anything you do subsequently with him will never be from your heart.
Of deeper concern to me is your obsession with colour. Are you some kind of racist that can’t see beyond the colour of somebody? A good deal of the world’s problems are caused because of prejudices of one kind or another, and racial prejudice is one of the most abhorrent attitudes that we can take. Let me put it this way, if you lost a lot of blood, and you needed a blood transfusion, would it matter where the blood came from? Of course not. A couple of years ago, I was in a serious road accident while I was on holiday in Africa. I had to have a blood transfusion, and I can guarantee that the blood was pumped into me, and save my life, came from Africans. As far as I’m concerned, it makes no difference, we are all human beings, we all feel the need for love and respect. If we can’t put aside our prejudices, the human race is doomed to continue fighting for no good reason. My white English husband has always loved the late great Bob Marley, and, having listened to my husband’s record collection, I have come to be a fan as well. There is a line from one of his songs (War) which always strikes a chord in me and it goes like this:
“Until the colour of a man’s skin,
is of no more significance than the colour of his eyes,
me say war”
I hope that makes sense to you, what Marley was trying to say is that we will continue to struggle until we can forget our petty differences and accept that we are all human beings.
Next time you have a relationship with somebody, look at what’s inside them, as that is the only really important thing. Learn to appreciate the love of somebody, and treated with tenderness and respect. What you said to this guy has not only destroyed your relationship, but has probably affected him, and may do so for the rest of his life.