I fuck my Maid regularly without condoms. What contraception should we use?
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Hello Anjali Aunty,
In my previous post, I had told about the sex I had with my maid a few times. At that time, I had regular physical relations with my colleague but used condoms.
But now, I have started having sex with my maid on regular basis, like at least 2 times in every week. My maid is about 22 years old. She is more than 10 years younger than me. We normally do not use condoms and I penetrate her directly.
She does not like me to use condoms. She also wants me to ejaculate inside her, every time we have intercourse.
My question is: what kind of birth control should we use in order to prevent pregnancy? I once read that frequent use of emergency contraceptive pill is harmful for health. Should we use regular contraceptive pill? But let me tell you we do not have intercourse on everyday.
Another thing is that, I also have sex sometimes with two other women, not regularly but sometimes and always use condom with them for sure. So, although technically I have sex with 3 women, on regular basis it is only with my maid.
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You have mentioned in your first question that you are unmarried, so I presume that presently you do not have much to lose.
But, let us for the sake of an argument, presume that your maid gets pregnant. Have you thought of that scenario. Let me tell you what can happen. You may tell her to have an abortion, and she dutifully agrees and no one knows.
But what happens if she does not agree. You can be in prison, if she complaints to the police and says you promised to marry her, due to which she had sex. Or she could say that you forced her to have sex. You will then have to marry her or pay for the maintenance of the child, if she does not have an abortion.
Either she is too smart or you are stupid, to agree to have intercourse without protection. You will not always be so lucky and one fertile day, she may conceive. Its all good to have fun, but be aware of the consequences.
If she does not want to use condom, then you should ejaculate outside her vagina. But that is a hit and miss method.
Emergency pills (ipills) are just that as the name suggests…to be used in an emergency.
You seem to be very confident that she is not fucking around. Does she know that you fuck your colleague? She does not. Exactly, no one tells when they are fucking somone else also at the same time.
Wake up.