I got a Job on the recommendation of my Mom’s Ex Boss. Seems they are having an affair.
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I am 24 yrs old. My mom is 49 and dad is 50 years old. Recently, I got a job in a private MNC with a good package as well. Thing is that my Mom’s ex boss had put in a strong recommendation for my hiring.
This was ok for me but I read their whatsapp message some days back and was shocked. Many times he has called her to meet him at his home when his wife was away and many times he messaged her some hotel address too.
Mom and dad have a normal marriage but I dont think they have sex anymore. Reading her messages with her boss made me see that she is having an affair with him and has definitely had sex with him.
Now I feel guilty that mom had to sleep with her boss inorder to get me a job.
I am confused… should I tell dad about this or speak to mom or not do anything at all?
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Congratulations for getting a nice job with good package! You have not done or not doing anything wrong. You are pretty confident that your mom did have sex with her boss. And their interaction also points towards it. But now grow up man! Try to look at her as an individual. She too have desires and wishes. There is a full possibility that they are having consensual physical relations. Those could have started while she was working with or’under’ him . And also most probably no force would have been involved And as one good turn deserves another he would have helped you to pocket this nice job to you. But remember if you have been hired by MNC then they would not have offered you a job if you would not have fulfilled their preliminary criteria ! So dont be such narrow minded.
And also never reveal this to anyone including your father. He would not have been in need of sex at this age but your mom could still have been needing it So she is getting her need fulfilled by her ex boss. Best of luck!