I had sex with my colleague. Now she is avoiding me.
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I have been working for last 15 years and had many female colleagues. In my last job, I had this girl working in my team and was reporting to me only. We became friends and got into intimate relationship. We used to have Sex very often at my place and once she travelled with me out of town also just for enjoying sex.
She was very good in Bed and really active in Sexual activities. Since than, I have changed my job. She has started avoiding my advances. I am not in love with her but as she was a good sex partner I want to continue this relation with her. She is young and unmarried and I am married. I often think about her in dreams and even masturbate thinking about her.
We both are still in touch but its just when I talk to her about sex She kind of starts avoiding. I really want to have her as a sex partner Kindly advice.
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Leave her alone. Give her space.
That would be my advice.
You enjoyed her as much as you could during your time together. So you have very good memories. Respect & Cherish those.
And thank her for all the good times she has given you. And don’t go beyond that with her.
If she wants to continue, she will make the move.
As with everyone, she must have moved on in life. You don’t know what all is happening in her life. For whatever reason, she may not be comfortable continuing with you, as of now. Respect her decision.
Be a good friend.
Don’t inconvenience her & bother her much.
You are being greedy, which is natural when one experiences something good. But you will have to have patience and learn to control yourself.
There are many fish in the sea, so why be stuck with one?!
Start your hunt again!
Happy hunting!