I had sex with my maid who is now pregnant. Is the child mine?
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I am 21 years old and my maid is 34 years and has two daughters. My maid often tries to seduce me by showing her cleavage and navel. I used to ignore this because of the fear of my family.
Few weeks ago, my family members went out and I was alone with my maid. On that day she teased me and was not wearing a bra, and shaking her breasts. I tried to control but she continued to seduce me. Finally I could not control any longer and had sex with her. I tried to stop only with kissing and oral sex, but she insisted that I have sex and I too got aroused.
Two days back she told that she was pregnant. I got scared, but she told that the child belongs to her husband. Still, I am scared about it as I had unsafe sex with her and did not use a condom.
How to find out whether that child really belongs to her husband? If it is mine will it create any problem? What should I do now?
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You could be in serious trouble. Since you have slept with the maid, you are in the best position to gauge her intentions. It is rather surprising that, two days after you had sex with her, she confirms that she is pregnant from her husband.
If you had sex on the day that she had sex with her husband or one or two days before/after, it could well be your semen that fertilized her egg. It is not so easy for a woman to tell the exact moment she conceived and since she is the recipient of two loads of semen close to each other, this makes it even more difficult to predict.
The only reliable way is to get a DNA Test done. This is not only a complex procedure but also expensive.
I hope you are prepared for the consequences when she says that the child is yours and you will need to pay maintenance for the child. I can visualize you being asked to pay money to keep her mouth shut or continue banging her, if she desires. Either way, you are in a fix.
So, what is your remedy? Accompany her for a DNA Test. Results will take a month. Ask her to abort the foetus and be by her side when she does it. Finally, get her to leave and work some other place. You can always give her good references, now that you know her so well.
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You can be in big problem. Now all this depends on your maid. How your maid knows that this son is from her husband. Only DNA test can reveal whose baby it is.
She can give birth to this baby and then pointed you as his father. Then what wil you do. Who knows what is in her mind. Is she wants to change the tadte of sex by having encounter with you. She may demands money ftom you to shut her mouth.
But you can ask her to have DNA test of her foetus and find out who is father. It its your baby you can terminate her pregnancy and give her some money to shut her mouth. But she is also well aware of her reputition so who knows she will shut her mouth. Go and have chat on this topic with your maid that you don’t want any issue regarding this. God Luck man .!