I have a constant desire to have sex practically all the time during day and night
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I am 18. I have a constant desire to have sex practically all the time during day and night. I feel attracted to every woman that I see. This is getting very embarrassing and awkward for me. How do I deal with this situation?
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You are at the age where your sexuality is at its peak, but your maturity has yet some catching up to do. If you are experiencing attraction towards women and are aware of what you are experiencing, it is okay up till that point. But when you foster and cultivate this attraction in your fantasies to a point where you lose sight of the line between reality and fantasy, then it becomes a problem. The biologically maturing man in you is feeling attracted to women. This is normal and natural. But we are not just confined to our biology. We also have the ability to ‘discriminate’. Use this ability to discriminate and discern, and you will see for yourself that fostering such thoughts about every woman is quite ridiculous. Sex is merely one aspect of your life, and though completely normal and natural, there is so much more in life which can fulfil you. You need to make an active effort to be available to ‘real’ and meaningful relationships. Perhaps, focus your energies on career-building and other creative pursuits. You have a long way to go, so work towards creating a fulfilling and meaningful life for yourself.