I have uncontrollable Sexual desire. My Husband works 8 months away from Home.
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Hi,
I am Vani 23 years old. I had a lot of sexual desires and crazy fantasies before marriage. I thought that getting married will help me curb my desires. I got married to a man who stays at home for 4 months and the rest of year at a far off place for work.
Initially, I had sex every day after marriage. It did not satisfy me but still I was able to curb my desires. But after he left for work it became worse. It has now been 2 months since he has left.
I am having crazy thoughts and very strong desires. I going crazy. I almost slept with my Bachelor neighbour. I am afraid I won’t be able to control my self any more.
Should I make my move and have sex with my Neighbour (he seems interested in me). If so any suggestions.
Tell me quickly please. I cannot wait anymore.
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Yours is a difficult situation. You are young and any decision you take now, will impact your future Life.
How old is your Husband and how long have you been married? When you are young and just married, it is natural that you want to give full vent to your sexual desires and fantasies. It seems yours is an arranged marriage and you have not had the time to get to know your husband better.
It is a bit surprising that even after having sex with your husband, it did not satisfy your urges and implies that you are highly sexed, which is not a bad thing, but since you have stated that he did not help you overcome your lust for sex, his presence at home, daily may have not been sufficient for you.
It would be nice if you could talk to your Husband, about your sexual needs and work out a solution, if you could join him at his place of work. (I know this is not always possible, if he is on the Ship or working in a foreign country). But give it a try.
Are you working? Why don’t you try it? It will give you less time to think and fantasize about Sex.
“I almost slept with my Bachelor neighbor”. How did this happen and how far did you go?
An extramarital affair, though exciting, has many pitfalls and elements that would not be in your control. Either of you could fall in love with each other. Getting pregnant and abortion or going on the Pill are lurking dangers. Once you have an affair, either of you may want to get out of the relationship, leading to pain and another affair.
If you imagine, that your Husband will never know about your affair, I can tell you it’s a small world and he will know, sooner than later. Consider how you will face this situation.
Think wisely, before you act.
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first of all I will talk about fantasies. they are imaginary part which sometimes we turn into reality which can go good or go horribly wrong.
and the way we watch porn, read sex stories creates this fantasies. so try to avoid porn and any sexual content as much you can.
everyone have sexual urges and right to indulge themselves sexually. many Indian husband thinks about only their sexual satisfaction. which is bad thing. but you feel that you are unsatisfied may be because of the sexual content you came up with.
now you mentioned that you almost slept with your neighbor. in your husband’s absence he will be good option to you but many risk are involved in that. and he surely knows your situation so he may try to take advantage of that. he may capture video of you while having sex. and later blackmail you. if people in your neighborhood know this then you will get **** tag without knowing anything. and many thing.
so question is still there what you should do.
well you definitely need sex. but you can’t do with your neighbors coz they know your situation. you need to find a guy who stay away from your neighborhood. if he is married then you can have MFF threesome. all you need to be calm and keep your patience. find a guy whom you think really trustworthy.
till then try to satisfy yourself by fingering.