I m and need a help regarding 21 f. Written whole sum and substance below
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I m 22 m and need a help regarding 21 f. Written whole sum and substance below
I don’t know why it is too difficult to understand girls . I met this girl first time in an education centre. I liked her but never had courage to do anything. But once I got a chance and she asked me for help. So I got reason to text her . It was just a casual chat . Sorry I forgot to tell that one guy also came there and she is good friend of him. They went to home altogether. So lets continue. So I help her for her need . And then tried to talk to her by asking was that help really helpful to her . And that day we had a good chat . I asked her too many things .She even enquired that am I writting biography of her. She also enquired about stalking and I said no. She asked about movies , songs and other things . And suggest to listen to song mujhe raat din from sangharsh movie . I m too fond of old songs though . When I listened to that song I thought maybe it some hint . And then I saw her noticing me , and I m very introvert so could not talk to her . Then one day we were discussing about movies only . Then I sent her meme , in which there was written that I could talk to her in chat only and in person I felt scared . So she replied that yess it is visible and enquired why it is ? Is she horrible and then i replied no maybe due to less interaction with girls from childhood only .All was going good with light banter . Then next day I texted her something and she saw it and didn’t reply for it . So that was awkward for me . So after that we met in class and she was in good mood and tried to tease me . So on that day first time i tried to talk to her in person , followed her but really stammer in front of her . Not able to talk a bit and she replied that text on WhatsApp and I asked was she angry by that last message so she replied yes . Then I text her but thought maybe I was tempting so much so I delete it for everyone. Next day I again tried to follow her and I just told her sorry for that last message but from next day she was in very bad mood . After 2-3 days I text her a long message because I thought maybe she was pissed off by me. And she replied yes she was angry as I followed her and scared too. Then I apologised her and she said it’s ok now all fine and let’s meet on Monday . But in Monday again I maintain distance to respect that boundaries. But on Wednesday we were sitting and she was just teasing me little bit . So I texted her again that is everything all right . She replied yes all is fine and said she became tired due to clg hectic schedule. Today also she talk to me in a very short conversation like just teasing . And then I told a dialogue of paatal lok in class and then I sent her that dialogue video only on WhatsApp but she saw it and don’t reply it . She never wait for me and go alone if that boy not come . She text in a very short manner. She told me that she has only one or two friend. I guess she is shy type . Even I don’t know exact . Yeah she also told me that her friend suggested her to block me for that case but she didnt . I m really confused what to do , what not to do. Is she shy or not able to express or she is disinterested. Kindly read this and guide me . Plz required any Female or experienced male for this . Females can better understand these type examples. Dm if you are seriously interested to help.
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You are 22, but the things that you are doing are done by school boys.
You are being too clingy. Give her some space.
Are you attracted to a girl for the first time?
You never fell in love during school or junior college?
First, stop writing/texting these wall of text. She replies shortly, so you send her short messages as well.
Try to meet her in person, ask her to go out with you and talk to her in person. Talk to her on the phone but don’t send her messages.
Now I don’t know how long you have known her, but you don’t know anything about her. You don’t know whether she has a shy personality or not? She has been teasing you, so I don’t think she is shy.
If you want to go together after class, tell her that you want to go together.
Find some other interests and hobbies as well, I’m guessing you just keep thinking about this girl, all the time.
So first become good friends with this girl, give her space and don’t message/call her multiple times in a day. Once a day or two is enough. Go out with her. Find some other things to do