I shall be meeting my childhood crush after 6 years. How to meet her?
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I had a crush in my 10th class on a girl, but I didn’t tell her as I wanted to concentrate on my studies. Now I am completing my B.E degree in Pune.
I am from mumbai so I live in Pune in a hostel. After 6 years, I met my childhood crush on instagram and to my luck, she is also here in Pune for her studies.
Now my question is: I still love her like before. She gave me her Contact No, but whenever I text her she does not reply and whenever I call she says she will call in an hour, but never does. I really want her in my life.
What should I do to make her feel special? We are planning to meet soon. What should I do on our first meet ? I am impatiently waiting for your ideas and suggestions.
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It sounds that she is not into you and she does not want to do anything with you otherwise she would have not avoided your texts and calls. However, it might be possible that she is not into phone calls so you can decide whether you need to pursue her not once you meet her. There is no need to do anything special for her on your first meeting as that might make things awkward between you both if she is not looking for any romantic relationship with you.
Just go on to meet her and try to be relaxed there, do not give her any hints that you are interested in her but talk on the matter you both feel comfortable. Your first meeting will make everything clear whether you can get her in your life or not. If the meeting goes well and You get along well with each other then try to make a plan to meet second time and if she shows interested then go to the dinner and then movie so she would understand your desire to be with her.
However, if you think that you can handle the clumsiness then you can express your feelings to her on the first meeting but choose the indirect way and if she reciprocates then you can take it from there. The only thing I would like to suggest you, do not expect too much and take things slowly with her at the pace you both feel okay because she might not be the same girl as she was years back when you both were in the school.