I want to have a gay experience. Any TIPS?
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I am 36 years old from Kerala and living in Bahrain. I am married and having 1 kid. I live here alone. Last few months, I am attracted to males especially Western born and want to have sex. I like to be a receiver. If I see any handsome man around me I want to feel them in my mouth or in my arse and I want them to be dominant. Will there be any problem to take a penis in my arse and put the semen in the hole ( of course I will make sure that all free from any problems). Also how do I give any signals to them that I am interested to have sex with them? Please help me.
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Please complete your Profile. From your question it appears that you are looking for a long term gay relationship and not a one-night stand.
You need to find a man who you can trust not only in the relationship but also in matters of secrecy. You are married and you must be aware that any idea of your gay leanings and relationship could destroy your marriage. Hopefully you have thought about all this.
There are many online gay dating sites, but first you need to find friends who share your inclinations. Since you are a “bottom” gay and want to act the woman in the relationship, you need to find a “top” gay, who will have anal sex with you. Make your preferences known in advance. Once you find someone, you can trust, chat online till you are comfortable, then chat on the phone and finally you can meet in a location where you feel safe. Keep your options open so that you can walk away if you do not feel comfortable. Do not book a hotel in the first meeting. You can meet up in the bar or club or gym or other social areas.
For the first time, mutual jerking off or a simple blow job is a good start. Hopefully your partner will be more experienced and will go slow with you. If it feels good and you want it again, go ahead and consider yourself ‘gay’ or ‘bi’ or whatever. If it feels awful or weird, then you can forget about it and go back to your life with your wife when you meet.
Remember gay/bi people look like the average guy and there is nothing to tell the difference. Communication is important.
You have asked some basic questions like anal sex and having semen discharged in your anus. You need to read up about others experiences and not rush into it.
Finally, do practice safe sex. Always use a condom