Is it safe to date a woman who works at the night club?
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Hi.
I am 25 years old male. I am from India living in Germany. I met a girl and she is nice and we exchanged numbers. She is 28 and she has a kid. She wants to make a relationship with me.
But she is very much worried about her job, because she works in a night club and of course she does that for her kid. But I like her as a person and she is so sweet. Please give me suggestion to move forward with her.
Thank you:)
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If you feel that she is nice and you like her as a person then you may go ahead with her. Moreover, she wants to make a relationship with you. She is worried because of her profession then discuss with her keeping some facts in mind as if she is free to do her job and you have no problem for that. You should not ask her uncomfortable questions and should not interfere in her profession. Try to know her fear and act accordingly. I do not think in your relationship, there would problem in future, as you know everything about her. Before stepping in the relationship, be sure what you want from the relationship. Are you seeing a life partner in her or is she time pass for you? If you are not sure what you want than honestly tell her what you feel.
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Brownboy, you never know what has forced her to work in a nightclub. You are right, she does it for her child! Else, why would she work there! She is a single mother with no support whatsoever to her. The child’s father is someone unknown who just has given birth to that poor child and disappeared! Do you even have any idea regarding what that girl must be going through everyday? She works in a nightclub, do you even imagine how difficult it must be for that poor lady to work there? She only works there for her child! To secure that child’s future because there is nobody to care for both of them. And if she doesn’t work, no future for both of them whatsoever!
Now there are two questions! Number one: do you love her? If yes then are you sure you’re capable of looking after both of them? If both the conditions are yes then what are you waiting for? Say yes to her because she has every right in this world to be happy!
Love her at each step of your life and make sure that you look after her forever!!
God bless you!