I recently discovered my husband is a member of all these gay/lesbian/bi/trans hook up sites. Some of the profiles he has say bi. He never told me about this and I never ever suspected it. When I confronted him about it I was not angry and I told him please dont lie to me.He said he has been in a 3 some in the past, before we were married with a guy and another women. He said he does not give oral sex to other men but he has received it from another man. I also found pictures in his phone of him with a dildo in his ***. All of the stuff I found makes me think hes gay. I don’t know what to believe or do but it really put a wedge in our relationship. Our sex life was great so I thought. Why is he looking for men online and sending and receiving pictures of them?