Is my wife’s strange behaviour a result of her past relations?
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Hi, I am 28 year old male and recently married to a girl of 27 years. On the first night I failed to make physical relation with my wife and we decided to have sex on our honeymoon. On honeymoon, I tried to have sex but my tool didn’t enter into pussy. Then I asked her sit on my tool.
She told to me that she is feeling pain but no blood came out from her pussy. I asked her about this and she said that she doesn’t know whether blood has come out. Later whenever I asked her for sex she agrees but does not speak any word whether she enjoying or not. She does not stop me what ever I do like fingering in bus etc. She does not show any interest neither does she stop me. If i talk dirty language with her she says it looks odd but know that she likes it.
I am unable to understand whether earlier she had relation with any one and she already know about sex. Before marriage I was a virgin so I didn’t know whether her pussy was tight or not.
Please help to understand what kind of lady she is?
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Most of the marriages are suffer because if male’s psyche as every man wants to know whether his wife has a past sexual relationship or not, weather she is virgin or not and make marriage life hell. She is your wife if she wants to tell about her past than listen her but you should not force her to say about her past. Moreover, you have no concrete reason to prove that she has a past relation, you have just assumption based on myth so do not trouble your marriage life for silly reason which is no more in your future. Think about future rather than on past.
She has been behavior strangely with you and does not showing interest in sex and any other activities, it is quite evident that she has a problem with you apart from the sex. Try to discuss the matter with her showing your interest to strengthen the relationship for the benefit of your marriage life. Men often make a mistake by considering their wife as a sexual object; do not treat her as an object. Understand that mean pleasure for both of you.
Show your love and affection for her, as for women sex is not their first priority, sex is byproduct of love. If you love her than in return, you will get reciprocating sex. Present her some gifts, listen to her, and try to know her liking and many more, which can bring her close to you. Do not indulge in sexual activities for some days when she ask the reason tell her that you are worried for her behavior and open up the discussion. Some time gap in sex may bring you close.
Please briefly explain why you feel this answer should be reported.
Most of the marriages are suffer because if male’s psyche as every man wants to know whether his wife has a past sexual relationship or not, weather she is virgin or not and make marriage life hell. She is your wife if she wants to tell about her past than listen her but you should not force her to say about her past. Moreover, you have no concrete reason to prove that she has a past relation, you have just assumption based on myth so do not trouble your marriage life for silly reason which is no more in your future. Think about future rather than on past.
She has been behavior strangely with you and does not showing interest in sex and any other activities, it is quite evident that she has a problem with you apart from the sex. Try to discuss the matter with her showing your interest to strengthen the relationship for the benefit of your marriage life. Men often make a mistake by considering their wife as a sexual object; do not treat her as an object. Understand that mean pleasure for both of you.
Show your love and affection for her, as for women sex is not their first priority, sex is byproduct of love. If you love her than in return, you will get reciprocating sex. Present her some gifts, listen to her, and try to know her liking and many more, which can bring her close to you. Do not indulge in sexual activities for some days when she ask the reason tell her that you are worried for her behavior and open up the discussion. Some time gap in sex may bring you close.