Is she playing games with me?
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I am 35 years, married man with a kid. Few months back I met a lady on a dating Site and after exchanging our email ID’s we started chatting every day without fail. But one day I had to visit my in-laws ancestral home, so I couldn’t chat with her (due to non-availability of 3G) and surprisingly she rang me up (I had once given her my no. and a snap of mine though she didn’t give her no. or snap or even her address) and we were chatting for about 20-25mins with some double meaning words as well.
Later on we kissed over the phone and hung up. This incident took us to the next level and we used to chat double meaning words on subsequent days on net – like whats she wearing, underwear color etc. but never directly about sex. Later I insisted that she meet me but she said it will take away the longingness / spice of the meeting that we are anticipating for long.
Every day she used to call me from different PCO for 15-30mins at a time but she never me her contact no. One day somehow I persuaded her to meet me. Initially when we went out for the drive in my car she refused to kiss me later on when our “Car” dating was coming to the end she suddenly asked me to slow the car and kissed me. I took the chance and smooched her back and even sucked her boobs for long and she also cooperated.
Later on we meet a couple of times.Once I even made her fully nude inside my car when we went for a long drive and she also sucked my cum after the blowjob. But everytime we meet she says that – “We will miss the crazyness or the temptation to meet as we now know each other”. She has even promised me that she would spend a whole day enjoying with me and we also did try that but luck was against us.
Also she does not allow me to spend even a single penny when we are on a date. Once she even paid for the fuel in my car, when we were on a “car” date. But now the question is: she has slowly stopped receiving my calls, though she replies to my email or SMS, though not immediately sometime. Also she told me that she has a hubby and kid, but I have never seen her putting sindoor (she is hindu).
Her talks reveals that her hubby is working in a high Govt. post but never mentions which dept. She also spends lavishly when we are on a date but she carries 2 umbers of normal old nokia handsets (though I know its nothing suspicious). Now my parents are out-of-station and my wify is at her parents place and I bet if I tell her about it she would land up at my house the very next day for SEX.
But I am confused. Should I go for it or forget her or she playing a game with me. She is really wild in sex exactly the way I am looking for unlike my wife. Also please don’t put up advise like – “You are married and its immoral…..blah blah”
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Sorry to say this dude, I don’t say this for anyone but then I wish your wife should have an EMA too. You know why? Cause only then will you understand how does the partner/spouse feel!
Agreed that you’re looking for agressive and a ferocious partner and not someone who is calm and composed but then as you’ve mentioned, you have a kid too. You have to bring him into the frame too. Keep one thing in mind that such things don’t have a very positive impression on the child. If at all your wife comes to know of this (and I wish she should know) do you know what all can happen? Your wife can file for divorce under the infidelity section of the IPC. If not, she’ll be with you but spoil the child’s mind against you and that is very dangerous because children are highly impressionable and your child will be a rebel throughout her/his life.
See, if you were commitment phobic, you shouldn’t have married as you would have been quite happy with the live-in. Now that unfortunately for you that you’ve married and more unfortunate part for you is that you’ve a kid, I think you should better back-off from any EMA because an EMA is momentary but marriage is sacred and is forever and you dare not contaminate this sacred institution.
And what difference does it make to you if she is not having that stupid sindoor? Do you watch daily soaps or what? Its rubbish that all Hindus should compulsorily have that stupid sindoor (women). Nonsense! In my own family, any woman whether it is my mom, my cousins or aunts or anybody, I haven’t ever seen them having that sindoor! Knock knock! Time to grow! I think you should better stop watching soap operas and get yourself out of this turmoil.
Take care! God bless you!
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letschat, we as a race never content with what we ever get sexually. Unmarried ones looks for and longs for getting married. Unattached singles too longs for someone to spent time with and if possible have some fun .Married ones(including me) unfortunately finds some flaw with the legal life partner and always are on try to get some fun on the side whenever possible.
Friend in a way you are very fortunate for not only getting her number and meeting her in person but having something on the go !Still you are not content giving the nature i have described of our race earlier. Now as you already have crossed the limits a husband should draw ,as damage is already done and from the details given she really is a wild one . So enjoy it fully until it goes on . In my humble opinion home is the safest place if you do not have nosy neighbors or relatives mannersless enough that they would drop in without announcing their arrival!
Here however i would like to caution you that avoid JUST AVOID getting involved emotionally with her ,missing her if not in contact for long duration and going pieces if she does not contacts or responds to your communication. It will leave you devastated even if you would not be caught . Always remember at the back of mind that you are Gods chosen one to have this no frills fuck and it is not going to last forever and it should not.
Take some most needed care and you can enjoy with her at your home (once i had one of my Girlfriends for three days in my home when i was all alone),It was a divine experience and most memorable for for both of us. But eventually we fall apart and right now since more than two years not in any sort of contact with each other and believe me i really missed her initially and it was real tough to get over it(but i got over with it) But i comfort myself thinking it was worth a while that i enjoyed it until it lasted. So you should too.
Why i am advocating you to enjoy with her is, not all men get such an opportunity in their entire life in first place. And if you let go such a woman without being intimate to the level you want to go, you are going to repent it all the while you are alive.So the mantra is always remaining careful so not to get caught But then as they say cheaters always get caught . Bear this in mind while doing anything or making a move! Best of luck(which you have; luck i mean )