I turned to this forum to communicate with other ladies or men, besides my friends, to avoid judgement. I just joined a gym and the personal trainer is very cute, not nearly as handsome as my husband but definitely charming. I have been with my husband for 6 years and the passion is gone. I feel attracted to the personal trainer because there is passion there. I obviously know that I could go to different gym, but I would have to pay a termination fee, and I like the attention. Anyone experiencing something similar, what did you do?