Mom is having an affair with a Foreigner. How to deal with this?

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Hi guys,

I had posted this earlier but since I chose the best answer accidentally, I did not get many answers, so I’m posting it again. I need your help guys.

I have a Problem. This started two months ago. I have no idea what to do. I live in Kochi, with my mom who is 48 years old. My dad works abroad in the Gulf.

Recently, a guy who is a Foreigner, has come for work purposes. He is training here in Kochi for the Company he works for. There are a few apartments in our neighborhood and he has rented out an apartment, which is next door. He is in his late 20’s. My mom is 48 years old, is 5’8” tall, has a little belly but a nice figure which I admire, brown and tanned complexion and looks very pretty. She wears sarees all the time and has long hair.

This Foreigner, was here for about 4 months and he was very friendly with all the neighbors. He became close and friendly with us because we are his closest neighbor and he was very friendly with me and my mom. We used to give him dishes when ever my mom cooked something special. He then started moving into our house as well just to say Hi. He would come for tea or dinner after an invitation or even without it. Things were going on very nicely and I didn’t think for a second that he was a pervert because he was so kind.

Days passed by and I realized that he was getting closer towards my mom. There were times, when I came home after school classes and I would see him in our house, but I didn’t see anything suspicious because I trusted him. One day, I told my mom I would be late because my badminton practices would go till the evening. That day, I thought of going home early because I felt sick and had a headache, so without telling mom I came home at around 4pm. Since I had my extra key, I opened the door without calling to mom thinking she would be asleep.

When I opened the door slowly and was walking towards my room, I heard heavy thumping and moaning sounds coming from my mom’s room. I slowly peeped though the door to see both were having sex. I was so angry and disappointed and went back out slowly and rang the bell to show them I was outside. I rang the bell and after about five minutes mom opened the door still sweating and wearing a housecoat. The Foreigner was fully dressed. Mom said she was watering the plants and the Foreigner was watching TV, so he couldn’t hear the bell.

I think they knew that I knew everything that was going on and he left feeling guilty. After about 10 minutes, mom came to me and told me everything that happened and asked me not to be ashamed because it’s part of everyone’s need and asked me to not tell my dad about it if I truly love her. I haven’t told Dad anything and this had been going on till today. They are very open, kissing and hugging in front of me and even have sex in the day time in their mom’s room. He now spends the nights too in our house, but he is still very kind to me.

Mom ditched her traditional Sarees and has started to wear jeans and tops tying her hair with a clip when she goes outside where I feel embarrassed because the neighbors will get to know something strange is happening. She usually stays in her petticoat all the time. She even goes shopping with him without any fear.

What should I do guys? Please help me. Does such stuff really happen? What if mom gets pregnant? He is 29 and she is 48.

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    2024-03-10T12:13:05+00:00

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    Sex is the basic need of human being. Concise hardly matters to those who desperately needed it. Whenever your father staying abroad and your mother staying alone at this time when a person become closer and sharing her feeling at that time she fall in love with the foreigner. You have number of ways to handle this:
    1. Write a letter to your mother and elaborate about your concern towards the relation in a friendly manner else she will take it otherwise. This may be a solution as it is not possible for you to discuss her in front.
    2. Try to contact the foreigner and try to know whether he has any other relation with the other Neighbour. The chances may be high. If can able to gather the information and you may point out the foreigner to stop the act else he would be in trouble.
    4. Leave her in her situation because who will replace the foreigner for the physical relation. You cannot ignore the need of her. If it would not satisfied in time then she would be violent.

    If she is happy and not showing you any bad behavior then no need to worry because after your school days you may have sex with girls. You may not marry all the girl with whom you are going to have sex.

    Now come to the matter of jeans. We love to see others in such dresses but hesitate to see our family members. This is bias, so think positive that she is become modern in her dress style

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