My ex girlfriend is asking for sex after 4 years. What to do?
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I am a married man and happy with my married life. I work abroad and my wife stays with my family in India. Before marrige, I was in a relationship with a girl but due to some issues her father fixed her marrige with someone else and she stoped talking to me.
That time, I was so lost and heartbroken but she never called me. Then I came here and after four years, she sent me an email and asked about my life. We then talked again. She has one daughter and her life seems good. She is also staying here abroad.
Now she is asking me to meet her alone when her husband and daughter are not at home. Even, I want to meet her and fuck her because I am also far from my wife and I am desprate for sex. I am worried and confused, If, I get close to her again what will my wife’s position in my life be, because she loved me more than any one and she respects me a lot and obeys me.
I also love her a lo. But because my salary is low, I can’t bring her here. Please advise me what I should do? Should I go and meet my girlfriend or tell her that I only want sex from her?
What should I do? Please advise me. Thanks.
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Take any decision from family point of view, do you have kids ? as you said you are far from your wife and she’s too far from you, think about her. if the same situation was with your wife, what would be your reaction. and even your ex is married and have a baby. its matter of sex go home and love your wife bro, have some ethics in life.
bye take care.
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Her life seems to be good’ I do not believe as she is asking you to get together when she is alone. There might not everything satisfactory in her life otherwise why she should cheat her husband just for sake of sex. You should not believe her words as she dumped you in the past for her parents. If she did not in position to go against her parents then she should have thought this earlier before entering in relationship with you. One more thing you should not forget that she was not with you whenever you needed her. I am sure, she will again leave you the moment she does not need you and one more time you need to face same situation, which you faced when she left you.
Come to other end, you need to ask one question to yourself ‘why have your wife need to suffer on your account?’ Do not you think that she deserve your loyalty as she loves and respects you more than her life. It is not her fault that, your salary is low or you are unable to bring her here with you. Do not focus outside the marriage as it is just temporary and in reward, it only brings complications in married life.
Firmly ask to your ex girlfriend that, you are married and do not want to cheat your loving wife just for the sake of sex. Break all means of communication with her. Let me advice you, bring your wife where you are staying without thinking about your low salary as most of the time problems would be resolve once you are into it.