My girl-friend is in a critical situation
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Hi Anjali mam,
From my childhood till now, I got a girlfriend named Deepthi. She looks cute and is awesome; she is very close to me and I usually share many things which happens in my life to her and she too does the same.
One year back she has fallen in love with a guy named Gautham. She told me about her love after which I enquired about him and spoke to him as well; he told that he was a business man and was earning 3-laks per day. I asked her to careful but she was very much in love with him. Their two families said ok for their love and the engagement also took place a one month back.
When Deepthi’s parents visited his house for some traditional formalities they were shocked by seeing his home; it was very small and later on I came to know that gautham is going to cheat her and also he was going to use deepthi for his financial backup for his lifetime. I came to know from one of Deepthi’s friend that his business was in loss for the past 8months.
I was shocked and now Deepthi and also her parents said no marriage to Gautham. She has been crying a lot. And to add to this, Gautham has been blackmailing her for the last one week. Right now she’sconfused. I can’t give her the right idea as to leaving Gautham.
Please help me mam, my friend is in a critical situation. Please suggest me some ways to relieve my friend of this problem.
Best regards,
Doubt Guy
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I don’t understand the reason why your friend should give-in to his blackmails. What does she have to lose hear? Your friends’ parents know about their love affair and if that moron is threatening to expose all the love letters, pics or whatever he has, your friend doesn’t need to feel afraid about it.
Make sure she doesn’t get into any kind of contact with him. Ask your friend to change her mobile number, e-mail address etc……. and make sure that he cannot come and contact her personally. If possible lodge a complaint against him at the police station about his harassment and blackmails; that would serve a good punishment to his misdeeds.
As for your friends’ hurt, time would heal her loss and slowly she would get back to being normal. Women are sensitive and when they are cheated, they would be devastated, so try to comfort your friend, be there for her at all times and take good care of her. Assure her that her life would turn out good.
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There are some issues not clear to me, you are saying girlfriend, by girlfriend do you mean a friend who is a girl? In usual sense a girlfriend term is used when there is a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, usually an exclusive relationship. I dont know how old are you and what intensity of relationship you had with her and having now, and might have in future too.
The other thing not cleared is how he is blackmailing, is it some record of sex scene or what? If you could explain that would be better.
Now your concern, I am not keen about the names, all I can say is an engagement is not marriage, it can end without any hassle. Even if it was a marriage a divorce was okay to proceed. There is no marriage, a guy broke his trust, there is no reason to have any future.
Give a suggestion to your friend to contact Police station, there are special cell for women and children, report on that. A lawyer can give all legal help with all the IPC codes applicable. She can start with section 420, and some more like postering to be someone else to engage in sex without marriage. If there are some video evidence, its better to get the guy a real shit under cyber act too.
Nothing is lost for her, she can get everything back, even a man for her, as you are there as her good boyfriend.If you are not married, stand beside her and accept her at this bad time.