My girlfriend doesn’t climax with me most times when we have sex.
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My girlfriend doesn’t climax with me most times when we have sex. This bothers me. I spend lots of time in foreplay and I know lots of liquid comes out during that time. But when I penetrate her, I orgasm more quickly. What is the solution to this?
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There are some people who are romantic and some people choose to let go of orgasm as a goal. The ultimate goal of sex should not be orgasm but pleasure. It’s good to have orgasms but sex is not a pass-fail test. Focus on mutual pleasure and satisfaction. As to get her close to orgasm, ask her to demonstrate self-pleasuring, many women who cannot orgasm with their partners come easily on their own. Learn from her what tips and finger strokes she uses to get her climaxing during solo sex and implement it in your couple sex play.