Just had my girl tell me that she had a really sexual dream of being with two guys for the first time. She said it was real hot. We’ve had threesomes with girls before, but not a guy.

I’m totally uncomfortable and would NOT want to do this with her. It may be hot to think about as a fantasy but god I wouldn’t want that to happen. I have anxiety about what things that could lead to. BUT I also know I shouldn’t ever judge a women’s fantasy. I know the reason she felt okay telling me is that I’ve created a safe relationship where she can let her dirtiest fantasies out.

But what now? She asked if I’d ever be comfortable with that. I told her it was hot and that I wasn’t sure, maybe, but who knows how it’d be in real life.