My girlfriend wants to take a break in our relationship. What should I do?
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Hi Anjali aunty,
Me and my girlfriend are in a relationship since last 5 months. She loves me very much, and we both want to marry. She is having some dreams before marriage like a good job, but she is unable to study as she says she is always thinking about me.
She told me she wants a break in our relationship and to keep a distance from her for two years. But I am scared that In two years she will forget me. I have given her permission for that. She hasd blocked me on phone and social sites so only way to communicate is in class.
Please help me. What should I do now? I dont want to lose her.
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I have read your past questions and reading those in conjunction with your present question, it seems obvious that your girlfriend wants a break-up with you.
Sorry to dash your hopes. But you should accept the inevitable. Since you say, you both meet in class, it is obvious that you both are students and marriage should be the last thing on your minds. I commend your girlfriend’s decision to concentrate on her studies, as this is the time you should both be doing the same.
I can also visualize that you had no choice in the matter and was forced to accept that she has blocked you on social network. This implies that she does not want to be seen with you or be associated with you (at least in the present). She did not want to break your heart and convinced you that what she was doing was right for both of you.
There is no point in brooding or thinking of the future. Live in the present and the present is that you sever all ties with her. If the spark still exists, it will be there after two years. In the meantime, shine in your career and pursue it with a vengeance so that she will be forced to look up to you with respect.