My Girlfriend’s Aunt is blackmailing me to continue sex. What to do?
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Hi friends,
I am 25 years old. 3 years back, I used to fuck a 40+ Aunty from my Society . We had a sexual relationship for 6 months. We did all kind of stuffs from normal to anal. Then I left that city and went to another city for job.
There I met this wonderful girl with who I got friendly with and now we have decided to get married. Just 15 days back, I found out that my girlfriend and my Society friend are related. She is my gf’s aunt. I went andmet my aunt and told her about my girlfriend and asked her not to disclose anything about our sexual past.
But she has started seducing me and told me to continue the relation behind my gf’s back . She is threatening me otherwise she will tell my girlfriend about our fucks.
I am totally confused, What to do?
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Your past deeds are running after you. You did mistake by going to your aunt to request her not tell her anything as that makes her think that you are afraid of revelation so she took advantage and ask you to serve her if you want to be with your girlfriend.
If you stopped having sex with your aunt because you shifted from the city then you can have sex with her when you visit the city and if you stopped having sex with her because you found another partner for sex then it is unfair of you. Your aunt might feels used one because you chose someone over her.
Now time comes to decide what you want so if you do not want sex with her then let her know that you are not going to succumb to her pressure and give her free hand to reveal it to your girlfriend and be ready to face worst result.
However, I think your aunt just threatens you for the sake of threaten as if she reveals than she has more to lose than you because she is woman and your relative.
Morally you should inform your girlfriend about your past activity but that would make break up for sure so don’t tell her anything and take a risk and wait whether your aunt reveals it or not.
You cannot do much to make your aunt silent over the subject. I am not blaming your aunt here because anyone would have done what your aunt does to you because you do not want to have sex with her.
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The first thing I would do in your situation is to discuss this whole thing with your girlfriend. This is an unlikely coincidence, but coincidences do occur. Just think about it, approximately 750 million women living in India, you have a six-month affair with a mature woman, and then unbeknown to you, you meet another girl who turns out to be her niece. If you sit down and talk to your girlfriend, and explain the situation, and that her aunt is trying to recommence the previous liaisons, then at least your girlfriend will know that her aunt is not to be trusted, and that you are.
Alternatively, you can tell this auntie that you do not wish to re-commence the affair with her, and if she even thinks of trying to use your former relationship with her to destroy your relationship with your girlfriend, that you will expose her to all of her family. She has more to lose than you do, as she will not want to suffer the humiliation of being exposed to all of her friends and family as being an attempted blackmailer. You haven’t mentioned whether she is married, but if she is, then while you will come in for some criticism for having sex with a married woman, she will be reviled for cheating on her husband. So really, her threat of blackmail is hollow, as she stands to lose far more than you.
There is one ambiguity in this whole situation, and that is what you really wish for? In your last statement, you said that she started to seduce you again, but you did not elaborate. Are we to assume that you finished up in bed with her again and had sex? If this is the case, then I have to ask you about what your real intentions are. If you really love your girlfriend, then resisting the advances of another woman should not be that difficult. But if you finished up having sex with her, it would suggest that the idea of having a girlfriend, and a secret mature mistress may have some appeal to you.
What people choose to do is really up to them, and the morality or otherwise of this situation is not my concern. However, I would have to say that trying to manage a girlfriend who expects a loving relationship, presumably including plenty of sex, and a 40+ woman who probably has a voracious appetite for sex, is both demanding and exhausting, and I guarantee that sooner or later you will get caught. If you really care about your girlfriend, and you suggest that you love her and want to marry her, then any idea that you might have about keeping the auntie satisfied as well should be put right out of your mind.
If you want to marry this girl, and it sounds like you are serious about this, then make sure that she is not in the dark about what happened in the past, or what her aunt is proposing. If you put your cards on the table and tell her the truth, she might be angry or disappointed at first, but at least she’ll know she can trust you. Trust in a marriage is essential, if you hope for it to succeed.
Good luck,