caught him messaging her and when I confronted him told me he’s been messaging and meeting women he found online. He didn’t even try to hide it. He says it is because of no sex. We have a 6 week old baby. The doctor and the midwife said we have to wait 8 weeks. He’s been after me for sex since we got home and I keep telling him no because of what the midwife said.

He honestly does not believe this a problem. To him oral was not enough. He told me he’ll stop in 2 weeks and he got mad when I said I might not be ready. Me and the baby are with at my sister and brother-in-law’s house and he hasn’t even contacted me once since we came here.

I have an appointment with a solicitor next week. I haven’t told anyone. That’s my secret to get off my chest. Thank you.