My husband wants me to be naked 24×7, what should I do?
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Hi everyone,
Since the past 1 month, my husband and I have been living alone in a house and we will continue to do so forever. Since the day we came here to this house, he has got a different fantasy.
We both decided to play a game and whoever lost would have to do whatever the other person said. Unfortunately I lost the game. So I have to remain naked in the house for 6 months (AND BY NAKED I MEAN COMPLETELY NAKED). One month has passed by. He works from home and I have to remain naked all the time.
Now it’s getting a bit weird. He presses my boobs whenever he wants and fingers me whenever he likes and I am not comfortable with this. Please suggest what I should I tell him. I am not allowed to wear any clothes at home during any time, not even when I’m menstruating.
I told him, but he said that he likes to see me naked. Half of the time he is also without his shirt on but I am without any clothes on throughout the day. We go out not more than 3 times a week.
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You were being trapped by him while playing the game. I am sure you played such game where he tent to win it so he can demand you to stay naked all the time in the name of bet.
It sounds that he does not have a respect for you and he is selfish in nature. There is no need to explain him that you are uncomfortable by staying naked at home all the time, just wear clothes and when he raise his voice show your anger and let him know that he humiliated you.
Normally when two persons play game, other person should show the sportsmanship or spirit of the game. It was really inappropriate demand from him and most of stupid thing here is that you start following his words. Onwards never play any game with him, as he is not playing with honesty.
Stop talking to him completely, show your extreme anger, let him realize that he done mistake; make him feel guilty by making you stay naked in the home all the time.
If you want respect from him then you should have to take action against him otherwise, you will have to face same mortification and dishonor each time from him.
If you ask me to describe your husband’s behavior in short then I would tell it is direct invasion on womanhood. All the men love to play with woman body, as it is God’s ultimate create and beauty but that does not mean that men have a right to play with her body and her self-respect. Your husband should have not crossed the boundary. It is just gross to think that he made you stay naked even in your periods time, it’s just highest of ultimate disrespect from him which shows he failed to perform husband’s duty.
It depends on you how to handle the matter as your future depends on the course of action you to take against his deeds.