My nephew is pleading with tears in his eyes. Should I give in?
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My nephew is 19 years old. He loves me a lot and helps me in all house hold things. I take care of him like my son as I dont have a son. Last month everything changed when he forced me take promise, that I wil not tell any thing to any body.
He has requested something very secret and told me that he wants to suck my breasts. He told me that he had even seen my breasts and he wants to see them again and feel them and suck them. I just slapped him and there were tears in his eyes.
From that day he is not talking to me. What do I do? I do not want to hurt him. Please suggest.
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He has developed obsession for your boobs and you cannot make him stop without hurting him. You cannot deal with this subject softly because he will get hurt. If he is not talking to you than you let him be, like this way since he has done oversight so he has to be sorry. If you try to persuade him then he will again insist for the same. With passing time, he will understand and will be apologetic to you. Do not pay attention to his deed just ignore him. Be normal and relaxed. You are not wrong by slapping him and did a right thing, as his demand was extremely intolerable. Stay firm on your decision, there is no need to succumb to his demand. You are like her mother and treated her like son thus it is your moral responsibility not support him in his wrongdoing.