My Office Colleague shares her sex problems with me. Does she want to have an affair?
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My office colleague is a Married Woman. She is 32 years and has very friendly nature only with me.
She shares all her problems only with me. There is no limits to sharing. She even told me her sex problems. Now-a-days her sex problem sharing is growing.
She told me that her husband cannot satisfy her because of his snall penis and he doesnot get proper erection.
She asked me for advice and what she should do ?
Is she giving me signals? Does she wantme to satisfy her inSex?
Please suggest what I should do?
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Your colleague is sharing her married life problems. There could be two reasons to do so.
1) She is expecting only emotional/moral support.
2) Along with emotional/moral support, she need to satisfy her sexual needs.
Try to analyse what exactly she is expecting from you and act accordingly. By your words we can assume that she is following an indirect approach to get her sexual needs to be fulfilled.
Many times women go by indirect approach when it comes to satisfy their sexual/physical needs. The reasons could be anything. It could be her closed mindset or unseen social limitations by which she is surrounded or family limitations by which she is surrounded.
Whatever could be the reason from her side, You should also be clear with what you can give to her. Is it only emotional support you can give to her or along with it,you can satisfy her sexual needs. If you want to give only oral/emotional support, just listen whatever she tells and tell few supportive words which can develop her confidence and tell to wait for some good time to come.
If you are eager to have a sexual relation with her, then you can initiate it soon as she already initiated indirectly and if anything goes wrong, you have an option to tell that you understood in this way and tried to fulfill her expectations from you.
So think twice and act accordingly. You are not going to loose anything.
Good luck..