What would you do if your husband or bf called you a crazy, dumb, *****? My spouse called me these names twice during an argument and on that second time I snapped and yelled at him and told him “call me a ***** one more time!” and he didn’t. I think I “scared” him, for he does not want end up at the shelter or a friends couch (I own the house). It all started, when we were in the living room watching television and laying on the couch one on each side. He was “tired” and falling asleep. The way were positioned on the couch, I tucked my left foot toes under his back and I guess that annoyed him and snapped at me, basically he didn’t want me to touch him… The next day, when we are both more calm, I tell him I expect an apology for calling me “crazy, dumb, *****”, and he tells me he doesn’t not owe me no apology, that he did not do nothing wrong and that he called me that because I started acting like that for exaggerating and I guess being “over emotional” about it… really!!? Ironically, his little buddy (big womanizer) was coming to spend a night at our place the next day (he was on a road trip) and I’m thinking the idea of having his buddy over and him being in a relationship and “stuck” with me, this developed some anger and frustration and therefor bad treatment towards me. It’s the second time he has a friend spend the night and he changes in a way that is noticeable to me. He does not caress me, touch me or just be loving when his friends are around. It angers me, annoys me and I just start annoying him, which evidently will make him mad too.