My husband and I have been married about a year and a half been together for a little over 2 years. No kids and I’m 30 and he’s 26. This is both our second marriage. Prior to getting married we had sex all the time. Then it started to slowly decline with him having periods of not wanting sex. When I asked him about it he said he didn’t really know why but was stressed at work. My husband is active duty and was about to deploy for the third time. Things got better and then my husband deployed but came home after a month. Due to the financial strain of me moving home and having to come back after only a month we took on 2 roommates, good friends of his from his unit both of which I am friends with. He’s been home for 6 mo now and we rarely have sex anymore. When I asked him about it he said that he feels guilty because one if our roommates is going through divorce and the others wife chose to stay home since her husband gets out in march and they planned to live back home. Since neither of my roomies can have sex I guess my husband feels like he can’t either. But it doesn’t explain his lack of desire when they’re not home. He’s been tested for low t but he’s normal. I rarely bring it up anymore because it makes him feel bad, especially since the lack of sex was a huge factor in my last marriage. All we really do these days is watch tv or I watch him play video games. We are struggling financially so he could be stressing over that. He is affectionate and I know he loves me but the lack of sex is frustrating. He says its not me and that he’s attracted to me but I don’t feel it. I’m so lost. Do I just wait this out?