Well, it all started about a year and a half ago. My soon to be husband is a photographer. He told me his ex, that he’sffriends with wanted so photos taken of her and her son along with some more provocative photos taken for her boyfriend. I knew her and I had no problems with the pictures of her and her son but the nudy ones I did. I told him I didn’t want him to do it and he said he wasn’t going to. a few month later I found nudy pictures of her on his computer. I confronted him about it and he said he didn’t think I would ever find out about it and that it would have hurt me if I knew. anyway we worked that out and talked about it and that was the end of that. Well fast forward to this week. I found a message on his Facebook from an old friend crush of his and it basically said that they need to go do it soon because his ddad needs the camera soon and there is only sustain days of the week he can do it like next Saturday (since I am working ) I’m assuming. this girl though I do not like at all. She’s caused problems with my past relationship with my daughter’s dad. She’s also known as a town ********** around here. I’m not worried about him cheating at all just really upset he’s hiding it. I know when I talk to him about it he will say ” I know you don’t like her and I didn’t want to make you mad” only thing is is that he doesn’t know I know his Facebook password. how do I get around that one? its just frustrating! I have to make a decision soon too. we have 28 days till we get married! what do I do? please help!

Also please excuse typos and such. I typed this on my phone