I had posted about my husband of a few years having a problem with porn, about five months ago. Well things got straitened out, and I started to trust him again. Until yesterday, I found porn on his smart phone. I believe that porn is a form of infidelity. He had admitted that he had a problem last time he did this. Well this time when I found it on his phone he said “I don’t know how that got there”. It took him me telling him that I am not stupid, and that I have proof to finally make him stop denying it, but not admit to it. This is the third time now that he has come to figure out that I don’t think he should be watching porn, but after all the talks and me trying to help him he just tries to get better at hiding it, and lying. He had told me to put a blocker on our computer which he said helped, but I can’t do anything with his phone to help him, not to mention it is his work phone and he told me he wouldn’t look up porn on it because his boss might find out about it. He had also told me to ask him about if he was using it at all, and I did like he asked, but he lied to me about it. He looked strait into my eyes and lied at least a dozen times. After all of this I feel emotionally numb to him. With all of the lies how am I supposed to trust him again, I am seriously considering divorce. I need help I don’t want to become a door mat to him, just because I do love him, but I can not take the abuse of him relapsing. I think the worst thing of all of it is that he would have never told me, and that he lied to me so many times. I even told him last time to fix this we needed to go to counseling or something, but he didn’t want to. Now he says that he needs help from a counselor, but the damage is done, and I am not sure if it would help. Three times is a lot for a person to go threw. Please help me with my dilemma.