Hi there,
I am an Indian women n now in a big trouble. I am married since 3 years n it was never a smooth relationship between us. We both are not satisfied with our relationship. And so many times I found my husband talking to other girls. Sometimes with his ex girlfriend and sometimes he shared his feelings towards some girls. I am really fade up. I cant tell my family as they will be hurt and they cant even think all these thing about my husband. I made his image to my family as a very good husband. I married to this guy on my own choice and decision. So I cant even think of getting divorced.

His family never accepted our relationship, they dont even talk to me. He left his home as there was never a good relationship between my husband and his family. Now he blames me everyday that he had to leave his home because of me. I am in USA now and in India I was doing a job. Here I cant do any job because of my Visa status. So I am completely dependent on him. He bring the issue everyday that I dont earn and just living on him money so I should keep quite. Sometimes I also react badly but what to do! I just cant tolerate all the time, though I ignore most of the time.

Now my life is more than a hell, no friends, no job, no love and no careness too. I got pregnant and we both were not ready for the baby. So we decided to go for abortion. But he never even think of that what I am going through. He has no emotional attachment for the baby too. It was just a headache to him. All these thing hurts me a lot.

I never cheated him and I will never do that. He wrote one girl before some day that “You know how I feel about you, I want to feel u now, I cant see u in a trouble” and so many things. He used to talk to that girl over the phone. If I try to say something he blames me back. Is this normal to talk with a girl this way? Really need help.