Secretly masturbating while I sleep
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- My name is Daniel, this is my first post. I’ve read several posts from years ago on this website. I apologize for the repetition. I’m concerned that I’m doing something wrong or that something else may be leading to this. My mind wanders and without confirmation makes it worse. Let me begin. I have recently been on an involuntary vacation from my job, so sleeping has become difficult. One night my now fiancee quietly says babe after 10 or 15 mins being in bed. I don’t respond and lay awake and curious now. I hear her roll to her back and her legs start to move. I then hear her hands slip under the blankets and sound of panties and small shorts sliding on the sheets. Our sheets are 1500 thread count and stiff, sounds are very distinct. I then feel movements and hear sounds if a wet vagina being played with. As it goes on I move a little as if i were adjusting. As that happens I hear swift movements from the sheets as if a hand was speedily moving away from the action. I may there for over an hour as my SO takes longer to climax. When she has finished o hear the sliding of the clothing again. She then moves the blankets off and proceeds to the bathroom but I stopped her. I got up and held both get hands and she seemed like a deer in headlights. One hands fingers were soft like exposed to moisture, the other dry. I asked what she was doing but she stating nothing that she was sleeping. That night I let it go but now this has me wondering each night. As suspected each night forward same motion from the bed, sounds, breathing heavily towards the end, and finally a trip to the bathroom. I confronted her and it led to an argument. Complete denial even given all the facts. I do not know what to do or how to get the truth. It started as a turn on but now has me feeling inadequate. Any women done this before? I would like insight as to why if possible. If it has to remain a secret I’m going to lose my mind. I do not see masturbation as taboo but lying about it when I’m 3 feet away is giving me all kinds of red flags. Please any help will be greatly appreciated.
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