I am a 26-year-old woman and a mother of a two-year- old. My husband, whom I love very much is presently abroad and will not be able to visit me for another two years. When he visited last we had a lot of sex. Now, I have developed attraction for a neighbour who recently got married but his wife is a student out of town. I become sexually aroused and get physically attracted to this guy and he also responds to my feelings. He too loves his wife very much and any relationship we can have would be purely for mutual satisfaction with no emotional bonds. So far we have had only petting and no serious sex but I would like to go further. Can I have sex with him? Please advise, both of us are keen on this.