This FB Woman Friend has blocked me. What to do?
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Hello guys,
Please read my last question as this is a continuation of that.I had a friendship with a married woman on FB and we uesd to call each other and had sex chats for hours at night.
I have my exams next month, so I told her that I may not be able to get in touch till my competitive exams get over. She agreed. She then blocked me saying it will distract me and she will unblock me once the exams get over. We had a mutual understanding, atleast this is what I presumed.
Now suddenly today, I saw that not only she has blocked me, but also unfriended me and when I called her she disconnected the line and then blocked my calls also.
Unfortunately, I have fallen for her and developed sympathetic feelings towards her but now I think that she was just using me like a tool. She pretends that she is quite understanding but I think she is just too smart. Feelings don’t matter to her.
What should I do now? I don’t think she will again resume our secret relationship. Only thing she wanted is having some sex chat I suppose. I have her whole chat with me and pictures of her which she sent me.
Should I take my revenge on her by showing them to her husband or any relative? Plz tell me what to do?
I feel like a fool who is cheated.
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Think of the Positives. You will be able to concentrate on your Career. It is obvious that now you are obsessed with her and believe that you are in love with her. You feel that you have been stabbed in the back. But there is really no obligation for her to continue her sex chats with you. You are not going to marry her..are you?
She may have been leading you on or may have thought that this relationship would have lead to some sex satisfaction for her, but since you are not able to provide it immediately, she would not like to prolong the wait.
Don’t be foolish in thinking of revenge. It is not going to lead you anywhere. She could complain to the police that you are harassing her and if she is able to convince her husband also, then you could be in more trouble.
Think that you are lucky and free from a scheming woman.
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She was with you because of the sex chat she enjoys with you otherwise she has married life and a husband to take care of her physical needs so you should have not expected feelings from her as that is not on the page and on her list. However, at the same time you should have been ready for this moment as this moment had to come one or other day when either of you get bored with sex chatting as the base of the relationship was the sex chat which was very weak.
I would say do not think too much about her actions and why she has blocked you and unfriended you as you have an exam coming so your focus should be the exam only. There is no need to take the revenge as revenge would not take you anywhere because it would only damage the reputation of yours and hers in one or other way.
You had good moments with her online so keep those moments with you to fantasize when you want to masturbate on her name but do not try to ruin her married life as you do not have a right to do so. I would say you need a new partner or a real girlfriend who can be with you to make you happy.