Hi All,

My current age us 42, I had couple of girl friends before my marriage. Now I am happily married to my wife since 10 years, post her pregnancy she lost interest in sex since 2017, My frequency of having sex has been decreased drastically.(Once in 3 months) post her pregnancy. I am getting attracted to other women because of lack of sexual activity and I am in touch with one married women. The problem is whenever I have sex with my wife I get the erection immediately and able to perform but when I try to have sex with the other women I hardly get an erection and I ejaculate before the penetration or while undressing her. This has happened twice with me. Couple of days back, me and that women were suppose to meet at the hotel but eventually I cancelled the plan because of recent failures. What could be the problem here? Sometimes I feel I shouldn’t do such things and be happy in current situation but whenever I see hot women I again feel naughty.