Unusual request of my devar(brother-in-law)
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My devar (24) and me (32) are good friends. My hubby loves me a lot and me too. My devar always makes me happy by complimenting on my beauty. Since last 1 year he was continuously requesting me to see my breasts, so one day I felt serious and discussed with my bhabhi as to my future step and she replied its normal if you remains in the limitation to show only, and if he wants let him see and enjoy the moment. Finally I have decide to do that and before doing so I have strictly told my devar to sit in front of me and don’t try to touch my breasts and I made 2 cups coffee and have seated in front of each other and I removed my blouse then my bra, and showed him. I was felling comfortable and we sat that way for around 1/2 hrs and he had not tried to touch me as promised. This proves his decency, it was a great moment for me, but then someone told me its wrong. Please let me know is it normal or not because one told me its normal and the other told not. I want answers from women who have devar(s) in specific.
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Why are you cheating your hubby? Instead of slapping your dever how could you agree to his wishes. Well you are like his sister and he is your brother right. Instead of protecting you he shouldn’t have had pleasure with you. For you its a decency and then again you conscious awakens when some other person tells s you that the act is wrong. Where the hell is your common sense, your morality,honesty? Today you had showed him your boobs tomorrow he will have sex with you. This is so wrong. You shouldn’t have done this. This shows you are having fault. You should immediately check your distracted steps to avoid future inconveniences.
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well Priyanka,
if you quote the indian culture , then Bhabhi’s are considered as second to mom and are also termed as “Bhabhi Ma” for the motherly affection they’ve towards whole of family, so that should solve your problem with the ethical part.
as far as you’re quoting the “Holi” bullshit , its nowhere an indian culture to do that…and its nowhere an indian tradition…its all a result of modern indian thoughts and western influence to take the advantage when you’re vulnerable the most..considering the body over relation. its like if 100 percent persons start smoking at the age of 10 and get cancer around 25, then will the cancer be normal and not treated as disease…? i hope you do see the point. some vague percentage of people doing it don’t define a thing to be right or not…
you’re just trying to justify that you did right, but actually your heart has told you what is right and what is not…
if you leave anything that is ethical , you can go around with much more and come up with the emotional problems and expectation of attachments from him….due regards and best of luck…
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I don’t know on what ground showing breast to someone other than your husband is ok. I should meet you and your bhabhi for some fun.
Jokes apart, its your personal but it’s not morally correct.
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It is ok if you are proud of your boobs to expose. If it goes on for too long you run the risk of going for incestuous relationship with your devar.