We are both virgins. What should I do? How can I discuss the subject with him?
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I am a 22-year-old woman and I have been in a relationship for almost a year now. We are both very fond of each other. While we have kissed, we are yet to have sex. My boyfriend seems very uncertain about the act. While he hasn’t said that he doesn’t want to have sex in as many words, I can sense that he isn’t very keen from his body language. What could be the reason for this? We are both virgins. What should I do? How can I discuss the subject with him?
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Ideally both of you should visit counsellors who have programmes and training on sexuality. If you are based in Mumbai, Pune, Bengaluru or Ahmedabad, visit the Family Planning Association of India office.