What is the normal period for a male to have sex the second time?
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Hello all,
I am a married male. I have a question regarding refractory period for a man. Whenever I and my wife have sex, after ejaculation, I need more than 5 hours for proper erection for the next round. Why is this so? Is this normal time?
I have heard that many men can immediately continue the second session after one ejaculation. Is there anything like refractory time in women? I know that there is no erection required in women but are they always ready immediately for a sexond/third round of sex?
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Hey Imunique i had clearly understand you question, I need you age but its OK you are married so must be older so coming for the answer for you question.
After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.
During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again.
Younger men may need only a few minutes of recovery time, but older men usually have a longer refractory period, sometimes between 12 to 24 hours. For some men, the refractory period can last a few days.
Experts aren’t sure why the length of refractory periods varies so much among men. But they do know that the length of time needed is not related to potency or testosterone levels.
Some men wonder how they can shorten their refractory period. No drugs have been approved for this purpose, but research has shown that XXXXX and XXXXX two drugs(if u want the names please msg me in private so can tell them but here ok) may reduce recovery time.
Women do not have refractory periods the way men do. But fatigue after orgasm can make them lose interest in sex temporarily. This can happen after one orgasm or multiple orgasms.
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The ability to get a second erection is not something that you an determine with a stopwatch. Some men are able to get another erection in a short time, others take longer. Teenage boys have a problem of NOT getting erections at the drop of a hat!!!
Rather than worrying about how frequently you get erect, think more about how excited you need to be in Order to get aroused. You need to be sexually excited to have an erection, and if the sexual activities are stimulating both of you, there’s plenty of other ways to give each other pleasure besides penetrative sex. We girls are lucky in a way, as there is no physical reason why we can’t have multiple orgasms, whereas you guys usually only manage one orgasm at a session of love making. Forget the nonsense you read or see in porno, most men who boast about their abilities to fuck all night probably never pleased a woman in their entire life. If your wife wants more sex, you can easily give her oral pleasure, or any number of different acts that will be supremely enjoyable for her, and believe me, the more excited she gets, the more likely she will arouse you, and you may even get that second erection you wish for.
Buy a copy of Karma Sutra, and read all that it has to say on love making. You will find that sex is a he’ll of a lot more than penetrating your partner and bouncing up and down for ten minutes!!!
Good sex is like fine brandy, you wouldn’t gulp down a bottle of top quuality cognac, you take time to savour the bouquet, and the taste as it teases your taste buds, and finally the gentle warmth as it passes down your throat to your stomach. Sex with the lady you love should be taken slowly, savouring every aspect of making love, feel her and tease those sensitive areas of her body, listen to her sounds of pleasure when you do something that gives her sweet rushes of sensation. Taste the juices of her most intimate places, and feel her hands on your head as you lick and suck, feel her body quiver with desire as you gently tantalize her with the tip of your tongue tickling her clit. You probably did these things when making love with her was fresh and a new experience, so read the book together and rediscover the joys of making love, rather than just basic fucking. Other books you could consider are by the author Nancy Friday, who I admire for the way she reveals the secrets of feminine sexuality. If you can learn what makes us tick, you can reap huge rewards in your own sexual pleasure, as well as learning how to give your wife the sensations she craves. Sex is such an important fundamental part of a happy marriage, and the better it is, for both of you, the happier you’ll both be. Don’t be afraid to experiment in the things you do; and please do talk to each other about what excites, and what you desire. Communication is another essential tool for a happy life together!!!
So, stop worrying abou how long it takes, rather, try to make the first erection last, and enjoy everything that builds up to the point of orgasm.
I know this answer goes way beyond the question you asked, but I’ve found that there’s often an underlying, unasked question behind the obvious, so I hope you don’t object to the points I’ve made. Other men and women reading your question share similar thoughts, so I hope I’ve helped others too.
Have fun!!!
Salma