What makes a widow feel happy?
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I am a 24 years old guy. I met a widow who is 37 yrs old, around 10 months ago on internet. She is highly educated and working and has a litlle daughter. We shared everything about our lives and talked a lot in starting days. But now I have noticed that she is not talking much with me .
I just want to ask some women members here that what does a woman like to talk about in such situations? She lost her husband some 3-4 years ago and was actually searching for a partner. But we are just friends and talk as friends only.
I like to chat with her and I presume she does too. But she tells me that she is too busy so cant talk so often. Please suggest some interesting topics that I can discuss with her and which she will feel interested .
Can I talk about her physical needs and her sexual life or other such things now or will it make her feel uncomfortable? Actually, she is quite open minded .
Please suggest something .
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All the way through you have asked this question particularly to female members’ even though I would like to give you answer with best of my knowledge about female psyche as I have come across many females. As you point out that she was talking with you so often initially and now she is not much into talk with you that much it instigates me that either she finds you uninterested /indifferent/ not up to the mark/ adolescent/ immature or you might have hurt her unintentionally.
Whatever the reasons might be she can only reveal it through you can evaluate your friendship with her and I suppose you may find some hints, which went wrong. If she is not interested in chatting with you then you should not force her, as you cannot compel anyone to chat with you the way you want.
Give her some time and if possible then stop talking to her if she comes back then she is interested otherwise move ahead in your life. There is possibility that she might have find her partner and she does not want to disclose it to you. She is making excuses it is for sure that she is busy but real story is something else.
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To be frank you are asking about a guideline to make her happy but in reality you yourself seem more eager to become more happy in the process. And if your intention is to get into her panties its quiet understandable given the situation.
But you for sure do not know whether she really is a woman or what or someone is pulling your leg.
And what a woman wants She wants love and care and do not like guys who gets attracted towards her merely knowing her condition and thinking she needs to be made happy.
If you at all want to know about her physical desires you have to take it real slow like ask her about her life what her dreams , her past life , her best friends, her ambitions and then her fantasies and gradually increase the tempo .
If she really is a woman and is as intelligent as you think she is then she already know wjat you are up to . So she already have set her limits up. And is keeping you at bay. Anyway best of luck.