What really happens behind closed doors?
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Hi every one,
I recently got married and these sex acts happened which were more than I had expected ( I expected only vaginal sex) but heard new words in my life like oral and anal sex.
Some acts I did because I was in extreme heaven, but some acts he foreced me to do. He forced me to do some acts for his pleasure. He was licking my vagina, all over the body and he was inserting his penis into my mouth.
Today he wanted to try anal sex. I said No, but he forcefully inserted his penis into my anus. My mother and sisters told me about only vaginal sex but my husband is trying to teach me oral and anal sex.
I don’t know whether they are accepted in my culture or not but my husband said not to tell anything that happed between us because the acts I performed on you are unnatural and unlawful. I cried a lot that God will punish me for thse unlawful acts.
I can’t ask my mother and sister and anyone of my friends regarding these sex acts as there is a chance that they will laugh at me, so I came here.
My questions are?
What really happens behind closed doors between couples?
Is oral and anal sex common behind closed doors ?
How do men insert their penis into the shitty anus orifice?
Do girls in India do these unlawful acts and act as they just had vaginal sex?
Do Foreign girls perform all sex types like vaginal, oral and anal?
I request you to elobarate your answer.
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Indian girls do anal sex and they enjoy it but that does not mean that you have to do it for your husband just because others are doing it. You should never do anything in which you are uncomfortable and your husband has to understand this. If he forces you to have anal sex then that it is called marital rape which is offence and he could be prosecuted for this.
If you do not like to suck his penis then you should tell him no and never suck his penis as you are not obligated to obey all his wishes. Warn him that if he forces you anymore then you will tell this to your family members and it might a deal breaker for you. If he stills forces you then without further delay raise your voice and ask your parents to step in as there is no need to stay in the abusive relationship.
You have every right to do protest against something like this as no one gives him right to abuse you. One thing is clear that he is disrespecting you and abusing you so now it is up to you whether to stay in this marriage life if it continues or not. It might not be an easy thing to step out of the marriage life but sometime we need to take such kind of tough decision to save our dignity. It is time for you to first warn him and if he does not understand that then make him learn a lesson. Prepare yourself to fight for your dignity and you have to do no matter what may come.