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There is a girl in our classes who have became my best friend and we are close enough.There is also a boy who look handsome,attractive,and hot.But he has compairatively lower IQ .He is very poor and weak in studies.He is a talkative boy and belongs to our religion.I am a simple introvert guy who is neither attractive nor handsome.I have a better IQ and i understand things quickly.I am the topper of my class.I help her in studies.I sometimes help the boy also.
After the teacher’s day they have became close friendsmeans i think so.Whenever he gets chance he spents time her.She talks with him on all and many topics.But with me she talks only about studies.Yesterday there was a meeting held in our college,after the meeting,he took her on his bike.Today he had spent nearly all the college hours with her since there was strike in our college.But looking this I just came out from the class and was busy in my work.I used to chat on whatsapp daily.But from yesterday i have not chatted with her.I think now she does not give any importance to me.Also the boy asks the girl if she have any problem in studies.I have blocked the boy on my facebook account.
These things have hurted me a lot.I carry some inferiority complex.I had been in sad mood since teacher’s day.I also can’t concentrate on my studies.Also I am thinking to break the friendship with her and the boy without harming anyone.I donn’t want to help her in the studies.What to do now?How to overcome this problem?I want your help.
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I can understand ur situation well coz i wasted my four years of studies with this kinda thoughts bro .. i was loving a girl she kept me as bestfriend…i used to be her first priority in each n every situation(i used to feel proud n loved it)tot she was mine..time paased one day i introduced my best friend to her (he is not handsome as me but he can only attract with words and be posh)..from then whenever we meet she used to ask abt him and they swapped numbers..From then whenever we meet we three used to meet but they two used to talk wyl i be ideal…later they only used to meet..she started saying that my company is boring wenever we meet..the friendship between me n my bestfriend got cut(though he knows how deeply i love her he never left a chance)…..i went into depression for weeks lost my percentage left with backlogs…but i never left talking with her..i started taking such kinda situations lite from then..
With same gal several such kinda incedents happened she used to spend time with other new guys too(no sexual bro..jus spending time)….she started swapping number s with whoever guy she meets ..if i questiom her she reminds me that ‘am only a friend to her and i have no ryt to question her’..to keep up her relation i started ttalking them also lite..it happened for 6yrs….i used to be topper started bbunking college lost attendance..left with nothing …in last year my family got into severe financial problems even thougbmy parents never gave me trouble they used to act as if nothing happend so that i can study well i thought for about two days i finally gotto know what ‘ true love means and really love me.” I decided myself to get outa it….i tookmy academic project serious as it can only give me practical kknowledge of graduation did itwell..guess wat ?? With only that minimum knowledge i got job……..
So bro….no guy will leave a chance wen it comes to gal whoever he may be (less iq..less knowledge etc etc) everyone will try to through a stone..
And a gal who is like this is not that worthy to think about by leaving all ur valuable time that is foundation to ur life….
Realise fast and get back…it is sure that .,that Handsome guys will be nneglected wen some better guys comes its the nature of gals that is really meant…..
Trust me bro u deserve much better gal to take care of u and who loves ur heart…
Thank god and be happy…