Thank you for posting very helpful opinions on my previous questions. Am Vedika, a 30 year old married woman and my husband is 32. We have a decent sex life since the time we were married.

But, recently my husband is finding it difficult to maintain his erection when I am on top. I am 5′ 6″ tall and weigh only 65 kgs while my husband weighs 80 kgs and is 6 ft tall, so I think my weight isn’t a problem. My husband likes this position, so I am left to wonder what could be the reason for this.

Am I doing it wrong? I feel I do it fine but I will provide the details as it will be helpful for you to provide your opinions. I start with holding his penis while on top and then slowly push the tip inside my pussy and then move myself slowly until his penis is more than halfway inside. When its totally in, I grind his penis for some time.

I then hold the bed with both hands, lean back and squat and widen my legs for support and move myself up and down. When my legs are aching I just slow down and start grinding his dick again  by leaning forward and back. Sometimes I hold his chest with both hands and move myself up and down while leaning towards him. Is this technique that am using fine?

Nowadays after some movements, his penis slips out and it will be a bit loose (semi-erect) and we find it difficult to put it inside again. What could be the reason for this. In other positions it’s fine for him, but I don’t know why he is facing difficulties with this position even though he likes doing sex in this position.

Also we have enough foreplay and oral sex before penetration. Do we need to change something while having sex?

Please advise. Thank you in advance!!