Why do I get so charged up when I have rough sex?
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Till now I was having soft sex but not getting great pleasure. I felt that my semen was simply rolling out of my penis inside the vagina and not coming out with great force. I actually wanted to feel my semen coming out with some force as during masturbation. I posted a question also regarding that and got some valuable replies.
I have decided to change my pattern of sex. I have been doing it in the morning after I come back from the gym. That time I am completely charged up and feel very strong.
I love to hold her in my grip and put her in some really tough poses and insert with full force. I also love pulling her hair from behind and at the same time playing rapidly with her breasts and butts. I like to put her in a helpless position where she wont be able to free herself until I ejaculate completely,
But she doesn’t seem to like it. She wants me to lie down on top of her and slowly keep kissing her until I cum. Although I cum doing that I don’t get a complete erection and feel my semen just rolled out of my penis.
But when I do it with great force then I get a great sensation in my penis when the semen ejects. Why ?
I have been doing this forced sex for only a few days and she did not enjoy it at all. Should I continue doing it and hope she becomes habituated to it and finally likes it ? Why doesn’t she like this type of sex and only want to kiss and cuddle ?
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You seem to be watching lots of porn as you mentioned in your last question, how you would like your semen to spurt and not dribble. You have found a way of this happening with some rough sex. This is fine to some extent. But sex is mutual and should be enjoyed by both of you. Just pleasing yourself is not okay.
You can begin gently as your wife wants you to do by kissing her, but surely by doing only that she will not climax. Have you tried licking and sucking on her pussy lips and clitoris? Try to get her into passion, where she should be begging of you to do more.
Your wife is not a flexible toy, where you can get her into poses that will help your penetration. She must be ready to enjoy your pulling of her hair, roughly holding her arms behind her back, slapping her on her butts and roughly kneading her breasts.
You have said that you attend the gym, which means you have a muscular body, but I do not think this is the way to achieve your target. You will create fear in her mind and she will be reluctant to have sex in the future. Do you want that to happen? Try a different approach. Make her your slave, by lightly tying her hands and blindfolding her so she does not see what you are doing etc etc.
Be gentle at the beginning and rough at the end. Patience is the key.